
Sacred Love Making is a ritualistic dance of union which is termed as Maithuna
(the pair-body or two-in-one) or Shiva-Sakthi dance. It is, in fact, an inner
aspiration to accomplish the alchemy of divine union merging the Male - the
Solar principle with the Female - the Lunar principle, in order to become the
embodiment of a divine
human being.
Maithuna, has nothing in common with sexual orgies. It symbolizes the eternal
union of Spirit and Nature and epitomizes the fulfillment of the contemplative
love or the spiritualized sexuality, unlike what is popularly considered by
unlearned Hindus and Westerners.
Sacred Love Making is only possible when the Maithuna union is present.
In modern day, most people have their wires crossed, whereby the media has placed
sex performance and sensual appearance as an important issue, rather than Love
and inner beauty. Love is the magic word that one uses so freely, yet does one know what
it actually takes to love?
The alchemy of the Lovemaking involves a deep knowledge of one's own
sexuality, total control over the sexual energy and the existence of pure and
unconditional love.
When one speaks about Lovemaking in the West it is usually about sexual performance. Many
authors in the West misunderstand love for sex like Karinna, who based upon what
she has written, in my mind, clearly defines her as a sex educator and not a
love educator.
She claims to know the ancient Taoist love secrets and rituals for deeper
sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. But how can this be possible for
anyone to learn by just watching a video? How can the secrets of
ancient Taoist lovemaking practices, taught by the world renowned Taoist Master,
Master Mantak Chiathe, be properly conveyed in a video?
The art of
Love Making cannot be learned, it can only be cultivated, and sexual science, like
any other sciences, can only be learned if one knows about the different sexual natures of
people. In the Hindu Astrology Yoni Kuta is an important factor that measures the
sexual compatibility of couples. Yoni Kuta indicates the degree of sexual
affinity, sensual desires, and even the size of their sex organs. Some
constellations are male while the others are female, and are related to a particular
animal, as also stated in the Kama Sutra. When couples share the same
animal type, one being male and the other being female, it greatly enhances the partnership. When both are,
male, frequent quarrels and lack of agreement around sexuality will occur. This
method of compatibility has worked successfully for 1000s of years within Hindu
societies, and has been part of the Living Goddess Tradition. With the Living
Goddess Tradition in India, the girl’s family takes great care when finding the
right partner for their daughter, to ensure that she is always happy. When no
compromises are made in this search, there is 90% guarantee that the marriage will
be successful, as for the boys family they will always look for a Lakshmi incarnate to enter
their home. At this point I would like to remind all women readers that each and
every woman ever born is a Lakshmi incarnation. Due to the speed and chaotic
nature of our society, most women are never made to understand their true
nature.
How many of the so call love making Educators know about the different types of
individual and how they function emotionally?
Karinna Karsten Kittles, better known as The Love Educator, is the author of
Sacred Love-Making. Here is what she has stated about Love Making!
"What is Sacred Love-Making?
While sex of itself can be very physically enjoyable and pleasing to the senses,
sex can be much more than that. It can be a truly sacred experience."
Which comes first Love or Sex? If it is to be Love, then one first has to
embark on a spiritual journey that will open up the Heart Chakra. If sex comes
first, then one would need to devote years in learning the spiritual practices
of the Tao in order to activate the genital energy. Sex without true love
can be very disappointing, and further more continues to pollute the woman's
Yoni (The Holy Grail).
To be a sex educator one has to know about the human body in a spiritual sense.
When we speak of the spiritual aspects of humans and their sexuality we then are
speaking of their inner journey.
How does a woman or man assist their partner to create union within
themselves? When two forces come together they come to teach themselves about
there own personal sexuality. Ones partner is basically ones tool to access this
union within one self. For this to happen a woman must reclaim her true goddess
nature. For a woman to regain her true nature she must empower her Yoni which is
the Holy Grail.
At this point we come to a very important role of women serving the process
of being in an inner union. Only when a woman has been empowered will she
be able to help men find union within themselves. Through this process she then
creates the necessary nature that then serves to worship her.
What is the power of the Yoni and the lingam,
spiritually speaking? The lingman is a magical wand and the yoni
is the holy grail.
Then the question is, can we find happiness thru better
sex and if better sex can give happiness, then why aren't all of us having sex in the
morning, afternoon and night, like our need for eating.
As stated: "Alive Mind we are committed to providing intelligent and provocative films,
essays, and advice about sex that stimulate on many levels. From Jamie Morgan’s
controversial documentary The Workshop about communal sexual lifestyle
experiments to Karinna Kittles-Karsten’s weekly posts about how to improve your
sex life based on ancient Taoist love secrets, our goal is to illuminate how the
pleasure and the power of Eros can be a catalyst for personal transformation”
First and foremost both Karinna Kittles-Karsten’s and Elizabeth Sheldon the vice
president of Lorber HT Digital, the corporate parent of Alive Mind should ask
themselves what will serve women better? Sex or reclaiming their divinity
through The Living Goddess tradition.
Will Tao sex be the catalyst for personal transformation? From my understanding
of what Mantak Chia has
stated in his books, Tao is “ a method of healing and life-enhancement which can be studied
and practiced.” Tao speaks about sexual energy, as a practice for healing
yourself and not much about creating better sex, as
it is believed in the west.
It is time that women start to understand that they are born as goddesses, and
not just mere women born to satisfy the need of men, or what the media perceives
a women should be.
Here is an extract for the teachings of Shaktism/Tantra:
“Yoni puja is a worship par excellence and by omitting it every other puja is
rendered useless. For this present Yuga the part of Sakthi's body worshiped is
the Yoni. Thus, Devi is worshiped only with regards to Her Yoni.”
This path was hidden and lost for over 6000 years. This is the oldest known path
in Shaktism, older then the knowledge of the Siva Lingam, which is the main icon
of Shaivism.
The Shiva Lingam represents the cosmic principles. In Hinduism, Shiva symbolizes
the consciousness, and Sakthi symbolizes the energy or principle behind the
manifested Universe. They are the cosmic couples who are inseparably united as
Brahman, the absolute. They also represent the essence of each human being.
Shiva is the third member of the trinity, Brahma the creator, Vishnu the
sustainer and Shiva the destroyer. The Shiva Lingam's base is the Yoni with
Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva within it. This is a clear representation of the power
of Sakthi. She as Aathi Para Sakthi is the creator of all, the Gods and human
and all the three worlds.
In the teachings it has been started, that "to worship the Yoni of the Divine Mother,
one has to worship the Yoni of The Living Goddess (ones female partner).”
Does Carol Ciancutti-Leyva know that she is the same as the Mother of Creation,
and her daughter is the same as well! Can she make the daughter believe it to be so.
Below is an extract from an article by Carol Ciancutti-Leyva published in
Health, Mothers & Daughters also in Alive Mind
"I would like my daughter to feel confident and beautiful not on the basis of how
she stacks up in the world to the images around her. I’d like her beauty and
self-confidence to radiate from the inside out not by the mascara that I won’t
let her wear. But the reality is she goes to school and puts the mascara on
anyway because her friend has a bag of make-up at school. So I keep trying as I
believe all women keep trying to get up every day and feel good about themselves
in a world demanding and “offering” perfection.”
To feel confident and beautiful all women must first reclaim their true nature,
become a living Goddess, which was robbed from them in the past 2,000 years.
Judaism, Christianity, and Islam, and most recently the Communists, conspired to
wipe our memories clean of tens of thousands of years of Goddess
spirituality, and thus females lost their sacredness. It is time for women to
reclaim their sacredness, and be worshiped again. Mother Earth has to become the
domain of the Mother Goddess, only then will peace and harmonious living prevail
as it was before the monotheist religions.
For many years brave women have fought hard for feminist right. Today, the need has become more than just to be given
equal rights, but for all women to reclaim their Goddess nature, and to
understand that their Yoni is the Holy Grail that is very divine and special.
With monotheist religions like the Christians and Muslims, women have been seen
as sinners. But in the culture of India women are seen as Goddesses and India is
where the Living Goddess Tradition prevails.
I have often heard of a happy and satisfied mother-in-law refers to her son's
wife as the 'coming of Lakshmi (goddess of wealth) incarnate' into her home.
This feeling and acknowledgment should echo in every home around the
world, for all women are the embodiment of Mother Lakshmi.
A house will only become a home when the woman of the home is recognized and
honored as Mother Lakshmi, and she herself has to recognize herself as being
so.. She is the light of the home, the wealth of the home. As I grew up, I
watched how my mother managed the home and finances very successfully, and thru
her
example my three sisters did extremely well when they became home makers, and
especially two of them who were employed, one as a teacher and the other a 9 to
5 office staff. Today their kids have grown up and become professionals
themselves, now we only wait and see how they fair, as the times are moving fast like their cars.
It is incredible to watch a man being a Master of the Living Goddess Tradition, and
helping women feel like Goddesses. I wish that people that I have quoted in the
articles joined them in the campaign to help women to find their rightful place
in society.
Why is it urgent for women to reclaim their rightful place in society?
“There is so much I listened to student after student talk of the pressures to
look a certain way the pressures in today’s world to do something about it
written today about the damaging effect to women’s and girls’ self-esteem and
body image by the barrage of images that are air brushed and perfect we see on a
daily basis. I read in a recent article from Eating Disorder Referral and
Information center that that approximately 10 percent of girls and women (up to
10 million) are suffering diagnosed eating disorders.”
The above statement will mean the we will have 10 million houses and not homes, and people
like Sarah Palin could also become the next Vice President, if not, her society
will build more of them, and that will eventually bring about the annihilation
of the world that so many of us are fighting hard to preserve.